Can you invite someone to a bridal shower and not the wedding?
This may seem obvious, but inviting people who aren't invited to the wedding is inappropriate. It will likely offend them and it will look like you're pandering for gifts. The only exception is an office bridal shower, where coworkers want to impart well wishes to the bride.
How do I address a bridal shower card?
There is no right or wrong. Your card may be addressed to the bride or, if you desire, you should include the groom's name. Ideas for messages from family and close friends of the bride.
What do you write on a bridal shower envelope?