How do you RSVP to regrets?
Don't ignore the invitation. Putting the invitation aside to deal with later isn't good for you or the person who sent it.
Ask for a different time.
How do you politely decline an invitation without giving a reason?
“Thank you for thinking of me. I would love to be there, but can't.”
“Wish I could, but it is not possible for me to attend.”
“I'm already busy that day/evening/weekend.”
“Oh, too bad for me. I'm going to miss all the fun!”
Should you serve alcohol at a baby shower?
If she is the host, whether it's appropriate to serve it, if she is a guest, whether it will be served. There is no right answer to the question of alcoholic drinks at a baby shower. The one solution that will satisfy everyone is serving non-alcoholic drinks and spirits.
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